Thursday, December 25, 2008

Thank God, it's over.

my personal favorite holiday greeting by tina the seamonster


Christmas. You completely kicked my ass this year. You weren't supposed to do that! Aren't you even familiar with your own adjectives??? Just to remind you, "joy" and "peace" are often used in conjunction with you. I swear! Look at any greeting card section and I guarantee you'll find copious amounts of those two words. You didn't render either of those for me this year! What's up with that?? (although you did render not one, but two 2009 calendars from some artists I adore! I'll admit, that was decent of you.) But let's get real for a second, when the highlight of your Christmas is calendars?!?! Surely you'll agree that there should be more to Christmas then calendar appreciation. So let's work on that next year. I'll try to remember that I don't have superhuman powers and that I'm not capable of 50,000 mind numbing tasks (alright, it wasn't quite that many. but still!) and you just try to not to be such an overbearing, life sucking force of nature. Deal?? We'll see...

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

The Letting Go

So...I'm pretty much failing miserably at my desire to keep you all regularly updated. I felt so on top of things about two weeks back. Energized and motivated! Ready for the holidays. Lots of things to share here. However, I didn't anticipate being sick, not only over Thanksgiving, but also for the start of Advent. It has almost taken the wind out of my sails... almost. I'm quite idealistic (it's a core flaw I'm afraid) and get pretty bummed out when things don't go as I plan for them too. And I had really lovely plans! So letting them go has been a bit of a challenge. But something happened in the letting go process. Something that I didn't expect, but something that I am deeply grateful for. That something, is nothing. All my plans ceased to materialize. Crafts went undone, many decorations are still sitting in boxes (although thanks to the h, lights did make it up), goodies went unbaked, the fridge has been emptied, stories unread. And for the big "what was I thinking???" moment, I discovered that storing your Advent candles in the attic (which yes, is cool in December, not so much in July..) is not a good call. Our candles were hard, wonky, globs of wax, so we weren't even able to light our first candle on Sunday. And yet, it was all quite serendipitous. Usually I would be having mild anxiety attacks, but instead, all the time that went unused, was replaced with a quiet peace. I plan all these activities as a way to connect with the meaning of the season, but nothing has brought me more closeness then this time I've had to sit in stillness and contemplation. A Lutheran pastor I know from San Francisco (via the internet) posted this article she had wrote for her church newsletter a few years back. Every year something reminds me to read it again.

A Merry Christmas to you all!

This year for Christmas I thought long and hard about what to send friends and family. Most of our friends are living in big cities or are just starting out which means that they have no space. Many of our relatives who are amply housed are starting to consider downsizing. As I looked in shops and catalogues I couldn’t help but have the nagging feeling that more stuff was the last thing anyone we knew really needed. I joked to my husband that maybe what we should really give everyone this year is an empty paper bag with the instructions: “You are given permission to fill this bag with stuff and take it to Goodwill. Merry Christmas.” What a gift that would be!

The gift of emptiness really is a gift. It just sometimes takes a second thought to figure that out. In Luke’s Gospel Mary the mother of Jesus meets her aunt Elizabeth. They are both pregnant and filled with joy about their coming babies. Mary sings a song we famously know as the Magnificat. In her song she sings praise for all God does, “Putting down the mighty, lifting up the lowly, filling the hungry with wonderful things, and sending the rich away empty.” (Luke 1: 51-53) Often this song is interpreted as a gift to the poor and lowly while punishing the rich and powerful. I wonder if instead it was meant as a gift to everyone.

Those who are hungry in Mary’s song have a physical need that needs filling. Good food, safe housing, opportunity for education, affordable health care. Those who are rich have needs too. Even though glossy magazines and TV commercials say the rich need more stuff, maybe what the rich need is more emptiness. Maybe what the rich really need is more space for the Christ Child to come and fill.

I have to admit, I wasn’t brave enough to give my friends and family empty paper bags for Christmas this year. I send them fairly traded chocolate instead. I kept the empty paper bags for myself and filled them up. A bag of old but usable socks to the shelter, a bag of cans to the food panty, a bag of appliances to Goodwill. Taking them away put me in contact with those who are poor and lowly. It made me care more about how many kids are at the shelter (40 a night lately) or how much food donations have gone down (9%) while need has gone up. Part of our call as Christians is to fill such need and to make Mary’s promise a reality. And I have to say, the emptiness in my closet, my cupboard, and in my basement feels good too.

There are twelve days of Christmas. This year I pray that this Christmas season will be filled both with “wonderful things” or “emptiness.” I pray Mary’s song will be lived in your life.


While my issue wasn't so much about stuff and things (although it could easily be...) it was still about creating space in my heart to reflect on the love of God's incarnation and to stand in awe of what is still to come. I needed all those ideals to be stripped away, and upon reflection, I can say what I am most thankful for this year were those days sick on the couch that gave me the opportunity to let go.

Friday, November 28, 2008

Friday, November 21, 2008

humoring the grandparents :: snapshots of the tot


:: rain gear ::


:: medusa? ::


:: rehearsal ::


:: awe ::


:: bliss ::


:: eye spy ::





Saturday, November 15, 2008

you'd think i have too much time on my hands.



Yes my friends, that would be a homemade marshmallow in the shape of a wonky acorn. (cause I'm sure that was your first guess, right?) Yes... it's the sort of thing you decide to tackle after making promises to your child (the same child that has the memory of an elephant) while distracted by some incredible photostreams on flickr...oops...

After a quick google search I decided on this recipe because it's the only one that didn't require a candy thermometer. (I believe candy thermometers are evil stress inducing devices and avoid them at almost any cost...)


I decided to forgo the corn syrup and ended up substituting it for brown rice syrup. I combined that with the sugar and water and let it come to a boil on the stove while the gelatin and water mingled in the mixer. The tot was ever so helpful in giving me the moment by moment "bubble status" updates.


When the syrup had "boiled hard" for one minute, we poured it into the mixer, added the salt, and started beating the mixture on high.




You'll have some time to kill (approximately 12 minutes.) It's a good time to break for smooches and silly faces.







Once the mixture had developed into fluff, we added our vanilla extract, gave the mixture another minute in the mixer to combine it all, and then scooped it out onto a baking dish that had been covered with plastic wrap and lightly oiled. We covered the top with an oiled layer of plastic wrap as well to seal out the air. DO NOT SKIP THIS STEP! If you do, all of your previous work will have been in vein. Let the glob of syrup and gelatin set up for a few hours. Once it has, you can either take the whole thing out and cut it up into squares, or you can do what we did and use little cookie cutters to stamp out various shapes. We chose leaves and acorns in the spirit of the season. In a separate bowl, we mixed together equal parts of cornstarch and powdered sugar and then individually powder the marshmallows. And.....

VoilĂ !


mmmmmmmm.......

Monday, November 10, 2008

...ten things making me smile...

..1.. a recipe for the perfect halloween

you'll need:

-warm soup
-hot bread
-good beer
-glowing squash
-candy, to taste
-a smoky fire
-good conversation
-and of course silly, excited children

combine and simmer.





..2.. our president-elect. i am honored to have to voted in this historic election. to all the women who went before me, who fought for my rights and my voice, i thank you. to all the civil rights workers who labored, toiled, and died to make this day possible, i am humbled by my small participation. the gravity of this moment is not lost on me.

..3.. birthday love. thank you to all who made my day so special!




..4.. some of my new favorite goodies found here and here and here.

..5.. my first go at making a scarecrow. the tot named him "farmer zuckerman" from charlottes web. :)



..6.. general tao's tofu. mmmmmmmmm.... we substituted the tofu for morning star chik'n (the h was a little scared of the hard stuff) and it was great!




the tot was determined to use chopsticks. let's hear it for ingenuity!



..7.. one of my very favorite sites...




..8.. the gift of stillness. (thank you once again jen!)

..9.. the gift of inspiration.



..10.. a justified fire...

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

....P..S..A....

Brilliant artwork by Nikki McClure. You can purchase some of her work here.



Find your polling place, and go VOTE!